Gnosis in a Hundred PagesPage 94 of 100 · Part VII

Part VII · Living it

The bad days

There will be days when every practice fails and every self wins. Falling is part of the practice. Shame is not.

Read to me

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A person sitting on a doorstep in the rain, a warm light on inside the house behind them.

There will be bad days. You will forget everything you learned by breakfast. A self will take over and stay for hours. You will snap at someone you love, lie down without the review, and sleep through the night like a stone.

This is not failure. It is the work. Every person who has walked this path has had these days, many of them.

What turns a bad day into a lost day is shame. The self that scolds you, from page 33, arrives right on time: You’ll never change. Who are you to do this work? That voice is not your conscience. It is another self, and it wants you to give up.

So on a bad day, do one small thing. Not the whole morning and evening, just one thing. One door question. One long breath. One line in the journal. One honest look at the self that won. That one thing keeps the thread unbroken.

And be kind to yourself, the way you would be to a friend who was struggling. The work goes better with gentleness than with force. Tomorrow is a new day, and the path is still there.

Try this

  1. On the next bad day, open the book to this page and read it again.
  2. Choose one small practice, and do only that.
  3. When the scolding voice comes, name it: That is a self.
  4. Tonight, write one line: what the day showed you.

If the bad days run into weeks, or you feel hopeless, talk to a doctor or someone you trust. That is part of looking after the body the work is done in.

In the old words

“And I want you to begin this work without a trace of guilt, because the leaking is not your fault.”

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